I just found out I'm Pregnant I'm ..?

I just found out I'm Pregnant I'm 20 years old and I'm a first year law student, currently my mind is all over the place. I've been told I'm too far along too get rid off it and it's due in September. I'm not sure where too start preparing for this child. I'm currently unemployed and couch surfing my relationship with my family isn't the best they mentally abused me so I don't plan too tell them. My problem is how is all this going to work, where do I start planing and what support is out there I'm from Sydney. There's so much to think of and I don't want too give up my studies. In list form how should I start planning?

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Annika alexandrov asked on 03 Mar '13 at 15:10

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My dear pls don't opt for abortion unless your life is in danger. Pls my child I am speaking from my heart, don't go for abortion because you don't want a child now. I know of a woamn in her thirties who got abortion done in her early 20s and now can not get pregnant no mater how much she is trying. You have the golden oppotunity please don't loose it and repent later on in your life. If you want to talk about it I will be glad to help you sort it out dear. After 15 yrs I am greatly repenting it. We have been going through lot of pain and suffering for opting for abortion. After terminating the pregnancy we returned home not still realizing what we had done. All of our pain and suffering began and here is the sequence of all major ones In 1997 our son fell all the way down from 10-15 staircase and was rushed to the hospital to make sure his head was Okay. BY God?s grace he only had a huge bump in front of his head In 1998 our son (who was 8 years old) suddenly had appendicitis and had to rush him for surgery. In 1999 our daughter had suddenly fainted and had a seizure in a church gathered for some school event. We were totally terrified as to what caused it so suddenly. A lot of tests were done and discovered that a tapeworm entered her brain although she is very careful with eating food but just didn?t know how she got it. Everyone was puzzled. We were completely traumatized by this terrible attack. She went through a lot of emotional and physical pain and suffering. Fluid was drawn from her back for further diagnosis. She was put on powerful neurological medicines and it took her along time to recover. In April 2000 I went for a colonoscopy because the doctor suggested it due to my stomach problems and my colon was perforated. He sent me home and told me eat not realizing he perforated me. Right after eating I got severe pain and chills and was rushed to the hospital. The doctor wanted to just put me on antibiotics instead of doing surgery which resulted in the infection spreading and ended with peritonitis which was excruciating painful like hell. I had to be rushed for emergency surgery to repair the colon. After the surgery I developed several complications, Suddenly my pulse was going down and they had to put me on Oxygen and discovered that I had fluid in my lungs so they aspirated the fluid with a needle which was very painful. Everyday a needle was poked in my stomach to prevent blood clotting. I was still not getting better, I had fever and chills and they discovered I had a infection and I was treated for that. I was in the hospital for 15 days. Every single day I was poked by needles. That is very unusual in America. Meanwhile my husband and children were really going through a lot emotionally and trying to manage everything without me. In 2001 our son suddenly developed a foot problem and his ankle was swollen and he had to go for surgery to fix the problem. It was a very long recovery process. He was in crutches for 2 months and my husband was giving him bath everyday. It was very painful for us to see our son suffer so much In 2002 my husband had problem with a gland in his neck and a biopsy was done and by god?s grace everything was normal. In 2003 I had to get my galbladder out as it got inflamed during my original surgery. I had complications during this surgery too and lost lot of blood and in addition I was worried about my daughter situation. In 2004 I was rushed to the hospital for severe stomach pain and it was some kind of stomach virus. In 2005 I had to go for surgery to get the incisional hernia repaired which developed as a consequence of the original surgery. Both my husband and I realized that all this pain and suffering is because of the heinous crime we committed. We are getting solace from prayers and visiting the pilgrimage places as Badrinath, Kedarnathand and Vaishno Devi and taking bath in Holy river Ganges. We are willing to take any punishment given to us but begging God to not punish our children. We are deeply and genuinely repenting the blunder we committed and it was not intentional but due to sheer ignorance. Children are a bundle of joy and terminating pregnancy will haunt you for the rest of your life. I think we were not in the right state of mind when we took that decision. Our pain and suffering continues to this day. I can never ever forgive myself for what I did. I know three other people who got abortions done and they are going hell just like me but in a different way. One's person's husband all of sudden fell and his brain got affected and he has become mentally insane and the wife is going through hell taking care of him. Another person got abortion after having a child and felt she did not want anymore but due to sickness she lost her only child and can not conceive anymore. Another family is going through severe financial losses and her husband also had a heartattack and their situation is also very pathetic. I am begging young girls and newly married mowmen to please, first of all do not get pergrant if you are not ready and secondly if you are pregnant please do not opt for abortion unless your life is in danger. If you can't take care of the baby give it for abortion. You may respond back to me if you have any doubts or questions. My goal is to help make you a wise, correct and educated decision and also save the innocent unborn babies. I don't want anyone to suffer like we did.I genuinely want to help you. Consult a gynecologist immediately before she takes anything. It is very dangerous for both the baby and the mother to do anything on your own at this stage of pregnancy. If you are a good person you will take care of her and do the right thing and your life will also be good. Did you even think for a minute how lucky you are that this didn't happen to you when you were in your mother's womb. How can you contemplate such terrible thought. Why have sex and get your girl friend or wife pregnant when you are not ready to have a baby and take the responsibilty. Why don't you take proper precautions. Try to lead a life that is morally & ethically right. Do you have a conscious and a heart? Are you not a human being? Do you know that abortion means killing a baby that is yet to be born. You may think that you are having a great time and lot of enjoyment now but remember you will have to suffer & face consequences in future for your actions now. Why do want to accumulate so much bad karma. Pls read all my responses and messages on this matter before you decide to take this drastic step. If you search for saiveera in the search box all my responses for users questions on this topic will... show up. I hope you got a chance to read all my messages on the subject and took proper decision that is ethically & morally right and the decision that you can live peacefully with for the rest... of your lives. Consult with gynecologist before doing anything drastic. Ask yourself these questions.. Am I in the right state of mind? Will I be able live with this decision for the rest of my life or lives if two of you are involved? Do you have a right to abort a life created by God? These questions you need ask yourself, Carefully go through my previous answers to questions on such subjects and do the sensible and right thing. Why don't you find something better and meaningful in life? Pls use your time to do good things in life. Have positive thoughts in your mind. Would you be here if your mother thought the same way whether to have you or not? SaiVeera answer on 22 Sep '14 at 18:45 SaiVeera Consult a gynecologist immediately before she takes anything. It is very dangerous for both the baby and the mother to do anything on your own at this stage of pregnancy. If you are a good person you will take care of her and do the right thing and your life will also be good. Did you even think for a minute how lucky you are that this didn't happen to you when you were in your mother's womb. How can you contemplate such terrible thought. Why have sex and get your girl friend or wife pregnant when you are not ready to have a baby and take the responsibility. Why don't you take proper precautions. Try to lead a life that is morally & ethically right. Do you have a conscious and a heart? Are you not a human being? Do you know that abortion means killing a baby that is yet to be born. You may think that you are having a great time and lot of enjoyment now but remember you will have to suffer & face consequences in future for your actions now. Why do want to accumulate so much bad karma. Pls read all my responses and messages on this matter before you decide to take this drastic step. If you search for saiveera in the search box all my responses for users questions on this topic will... show up. I hope you got a chance to read all my messages on the subject and took proper decision that is ethically & morally right and the decision that you can live peacefully with for the rest... of your lives. Consult with gynecologist before doing anything drastic. Ask yourself these questions.. Am I in the right state of mind? Will I be able live with this decision for the rest of my life or lives if two of you are involved? Do you have a right to abort a life created by God? These questions you need ask yourself, Carefully go through my previous answers to questions on such subjects and do the sensible and right thing. Why don't you find something better and meaningful in life? Pls use your time to do good things in life. Have positive thoughts and do good deeds in life. Don't pay any attention to what emmy is saying to me. Why are you addressing me Emmy when Sonu needs proper advice and guidance at this critical time. Emmy, you are trying to make me believe in jesus. I am a staunch Hindu & I have complete faith in my God. Emmy, You need not preach me. I am trying to help others not commit the same sin i committed.I don't need any of your help. I am doing good deeds and helping people in my own way and thus finding solace and peace.**********8* Consult a gynecologist immediately before she takes anything. It is very dangerous for both the baby and the mother to do anything on your own at this stage of pregnancy. If you are a good person you will take care of her and do the right thing and your life will also be good. Did you even think for a minute how lucky you are that this didn't happen to you when you were in your mother's womb. How can you contemplate such terrible thought. Why have sex and get your girl friend or wife pregnant when you are not ready to have a baby and take the responsibility. Why don't you take proper precautions. Try to lead a life that is morally & ethically right. Do you have a conscious and a heart? Are you not a human being? Do you know that abortion means killing a baby that is yet to be born. You may think that you are having a great time and lot of enjoyment now but remember you will have to suffer & face consequences in future for your actions now. Why do want to accumulate so much bad karma. Pls read all my responses and messages on this matter before you decide to take this drastic step. If you search for saiveera in the search box all my responses for users questions on this topic will... show up. I hope you got a chance to read all my messages on the subject and took proper decision that is ethically & morally right and the decision that you can live peacefully with for the rest... of your lives. Consult with gynecologist before doing anything drastic. Ask yourself these questions.. Am I in the right state of mind? Will I be able live with this decision for the rest of my life or lives if two of you are involved? Do you have a right to abort a life created by God? These questions you need ask yourself, Carefully go through my previous answers to questions on such subjects and do the sensible and right thing. Why don't you find something better and meaningful in life? Pls use your time to do good things in life. Have positive thoughts and do good deeds in life. Don't pay any attention to what emmy is saying to me. Why are you addressing me Emmy when Sonu needs proper advice and guidance at this critical time. Emmy, you are trying to make me believe in jesus. I am a staunch Hindu & I have complete faith in my God. Emmy, You need not preach me. I am trying to help others not commit the same sin i committed.I don't need any of your help. I am doing good deeds and helping people in my own way and thus finding solace and peace.*********** Consult a gynecologist immediately before she takes anything. It is very dangerous for both the baby and the mother to do anything on your own at this stage of pregnancy. If you are a good person you will take care of her and do the right thing and your life will also be good. Did you even think for a minute how lucky you are that this didn't happen to you when you were in your mother's womb. How can you contemplate such terrible thought. Why have sex and get your girl friend or wife pregnant when you are not ready to have a baby and take the responsibility. Why don't you take proper precautions. Try to lead a life that is morally & ethically right. Do you have a conscious and a heart? Are you not a human being? Do you know that abortion means killing a baby that is yet to be born. You may think that you are having a great time and lot of enjoyment now but remember you will have to suffer & face consequences in future for your actions now. Why do want to accumulate so much bad karma. Pls read all my responses and messages on this matter before you decide to take this drastic step. If you search for saiveera in the search box all my responses for users questions on this topic will... show up. I hope you got a chance to read all my messages on the subject and took proper decision that is ethically & morally right and the decision that you can live peacefully with for the rest... of your lives. Consult with gynecologist before doing anything drastic. Ask yourself these questions.. Am I in the right state of mind? Will I be able live with this decision for the rest of my life or lives if two of you are involved? Do you have a right to abort a life created by God? These questions you need ask yourself, Carefully go through my previous answers to questions on such subjects and do the sensible and right thing. Why don't you find something better and meaningful in life? Pls use your time to do good things in life. Have positive thoughts and do good deeds in life. Don't pay any attention to what emmy is saying to me. Why are you addressing me Emmy when Sonu needs proper advice and guidance at this critical time. Emmy, you are trying to make me believe in jesus. I am a staunch Hindu & I have complete faith in my God. Emmy, You need not preach me. I am trying to help others not commit the same sin i committed.I don't need any of your help. I am doing good deeds and helping people in my own way and thus finding solace and peace. SaiVeera answer on 08 Sep '14 at 19:15 SaiVeera Consult a gynecologist immediately before she takes anything. It is very dangerous for both the baby and the mother to do anything on your own at this stage of pregnancy. If you are a good person you will take care of her and do the right thing and your life will also be good. Did you even think for a minute how lucky you are that this didn't happen to you when you were in your mother's womb. How can you contemplate such terrible thought. Why have sex and get your girl friend or wife pregnant when you are not ready to have a baby and take the responsibilty. Why don't you take proper precautions. Try to lead a life that is morally & ethically right. Do you have a conscious and a heart? Are you not a human being? Do you know that abortion means killing a baby that is yet to be born. You may think that you are having a great time and lot of enjoyment now but remember you will have to suffer & face consequences in future for your actions now. Why do want to accumulate so much bad karma. Pls read all my responses and messages on this matter before you decide to take this drastic step. If you search for saiveera in the search box all my responses for users questions on this topic will... show up. I hope you got a chance to read all my messages on the subject and took proper decision that is ethically & morally right and the decision that you can live peacefully with for the rest... of your lives. Consult with gynecologist before doing anything drastic. Ask yourself these questions.. Am I in the right state of mind? Will I be able live with this decision for the rest of my life or lives if two of you are involved? Do you have a right to abort a life created by God? These questions you need ask yourself, Carefully go through my previous answers to questions on such subjects and do the sensible and right thing. Why don't you find something better and meaningful in life? Pls use your time to do good things in life. Have positive thoughts in your mind. Would you be here if your mother thought the same way whether to have you or not? SaiVeera answer on 08 Sep '14 at 18:48 Have something to say? Share Your Answer 10 pregnancy signs 10 pregnancy signs Pregnancy Symptoms Before Missed Period Pregnancy Symptoms Before Missed Period Embarrassing Pregnancy Symptoms Embarrassing Pregnancy Symptoms Early Signs Of Pregnancy To Look Out For Early Signs Of Pregnancy To Look Out For LetsBaby.com is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution-NonCommercial-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported License. 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However, the failure rate is only 25% which is pretty high and you should be very precise with your calculations & requires careful planning with method Barrier Method Barrier methods include the condom, the diaphragm and the cervical cap. The diaphragm covers the entrance to the uterus, thereby blocking the sperm's access. The condom keeps the sperm contained. In general, barrier methods have a failure rate of in the range of 11 percent to 20 percent, Oral/Topical Some women take pills or wear a patch to control the hormones that allow pregnancy to occur. If used correctly, these drugs prevent pregnancy. You can stop taking the pills if you are ready to get pregnant. The failure rate of the pill or patch is about 5 percent, although it might be somewhat higher in overweight women. Injection Depo-Provera is an injection given to women as birth control. Women must get the shot four times per year, and it has a failure rate of less than 1 percent. Internal IUD stands for internal uterine device. An IUD is inserted into a woman's uterus by a doctor to prevent pregnancy. When the woman is ready to get pregnant the doctor can remove the device. The IUD has a failure rate of about 1 percent. Newer devices, such as the Nuva-Ring, have a failure rate of about 5 percent. Sterilization Both men and women can undergo sterilization procedures, with the goal of permanently preventing pregnancy. Failure rates for both men and women are less than 1 percent however, the procedures are never fool-proof or completely effective in everyone. If you want more detailed information get it right from Letsbaby.com or from the website below Read more at:


SaiVeera answer on 22 Sep '14 at 19:06

Looking for Family Planning?Want to Delay Pregnancy?Not ready to get pregnant now? What are my Choices? If you are not ready to get pregnant and are looking for methods to prevent pregnancy or want to wait for a few years to get pregnant, below are various options for you to choose from. Each one has different failure rates -- no method other than abstinence is 100% effective -- but as per your preference you can make a choice after talking to your doctor about each method and doing your own research to find out what is the best method that suits you or interests you. Natural Natural family planning is also known as the rhythm method. It requires tracking the woman's ovulation and avoiding having sex when she is fertile. However, the failure rate is only 25% which is pretty high and you should be very precise with your calculations & requires careful planning with method Barrier Method Barrier methods include the condom, the diaphragm and the cervical cap. The diaphragm covers the entrance to the uterus, thereby blocking the sperm's access. The condom keeps the sperm contained. In general, barrier methods have a failure rate of in the range of 11 percent to 20 percent, Oral/Topical Some women take pills or wear a patch to control the hormones that allow pregnancy to occur. If used correctly, these drugs prevent pregnancy. You can stop taking the pills if you are ready to get pregnant. The failure rate of the pill or patch is about 5 percent, although it might be somewhat higher in overweight women. Injection Depo-Provera is an injection given to women as birth control. Women must get the shot four times per year, and it has a failure rate of less than 1 percent. Internal IUD stands for internal uterine device. An IUD is inserted into a woman's uterus by a doctor to prevent pregnancy. When the woman is ready to get pregnant the doctor can remove the device. The IUD has a failure rate of about 1 percent. Newer devices, such as the Nuva-Ring, have a failure rate of about 5 percent. Sterilization Both men and women can undergo sterilization procedures, with the goal of permanently preventing pregnancy. Failure rates for both men and women are less than 1 percent however, the procedures are never fool-proof or completely effective in everyone. If you want more detailed information get it right from Letsbaby.com or from the website below Read more at: Read more at: http://www.letsbaby.com/answer/1410240948206/my_wife_is_of_7_days_of_pregnnancyancy_please_tell_me


SaiVeera answer on 22 Sep '14 at 19:02

Looking for Family Planning?Want to Delay Pregnancy?Not ready to get pregnant now? What are my Choices? If you are not ready to get pregnant and are looking for methods to prevent pregnancy or want to wait for a few years to get pregnant, below are various options for you to choose from. Each one has different failure rates -- no method other than abstinence is 100% effective -- but as per your preference you can make a choice after talking to your doctor about each method and doing your own research to find out what is the best method that suits you or interests you. Natural Natural family planning is also known as the rhythm method. It requires tracking the woman's ovulation and avoiding having sex when she is fertile. However, the failure rate is only 25% which is pretty high and you should be very precise with your calculations & requires careful planning with method Barrier Method Barrier methods include the condom, the diaphragm and the cervical cap. The diaphragm covers the entrance to the uterus, thereby blocking the sperm's access. The condom keeps the sperm contained. In general, barrier methods have a failure rate of in the range of 11 percent to 20 percent, Oral/Topical Some women take pills or wear a patch to control the hormones that allow pregnancy to occur. If used correctly, these drugs prevent pregnancy. You can stop taking the pills if you are ready to get pregnant. The failure rate of the pill or patch is about 5 percent, although it might be somewhat higher in overweight women. Injection Depo-Provera is an injection given to women as birth control. Women must get the shot four times per year, and it has a failure rate of less than 1 percent. Internal IUD stands for internal uterine device. An IUD is inserted into a woman's uterus by a doctor to prevent pregnancy. When the woman is ready to get pregnant the doctor can remove the device. The IUD has a failure rate of about 1 percent. Newer devices, such as the Nuva-Ring, have a failure rate of about 5 percent. Sterilization Both men and women can undergo sterilization procedures, with the goal of permanently preventing pregnancy. Failure rates for both men and women are less than 1 percent however, the procedures are never fool-proof or completely effective in everyone. If you want more detailed information get it right from Letsbaby.com or from the website below. http://www.buzzle.com/articles/different-methods-of-family-planning.html


SaiVeera answer on 28 Jul '14 at 17:57

saiveera

Is anybody out there planning to have an abortion? Please read my very personal heartwrenching experience before taking such a crucial decision. My dear pls don't opt for abortion unless your life is in danger. After 15 yrs I am greatly repenting it. We have been going through lot of pain and suffering for opting for abortion. After terminating the pregnancy we returned home not still realizing what we had done. All of our pain and suffering began and here is the sequence of all major ones In 1997 our son fell all the way down from 10-15 staircase and was rushed to the hospital to make sure his head was Okay. BY God?s grace he only had a huge bump in front of his head In 1998 our son (who was 8 years old) suddenly had appendicitis and had to rush him for surgery. In 1999 our daughter had suddenly fainted and had a seizure in a church gathered for some school event. We were totally terrified as to what caused it so suddenly. A lot of tests were done and discovered that a tapeworm entered her brain although she is very careful with eating food but just didn?t know how she got it. Everyone was puzzled. We were completely traumatized by this terrible attack. She went through a lot of emotional and physical pain and suffering. Fluid was drawn from her back for further diagnosis. She was put on powerful neurological medicines and it took her along time to recover. In April 2000 I went for a colonoscopy because the doctor suggested it due to my stomach problems and my colon was perforated. He sent me home and told me eat not realizing he perforated me. Right after eating I got severe pain and chills and was rushed to the hospital. The doctor wanted to just put me on antibiotics instead of doing surgery which resulted in the infection spreading and ended with peritonitis which was excruciating painful like hell. I had to be rushed for emergency surgery to repair the colon. After the surgery I developed several complications, Suddenly my pulse was going down and they had to put me on Oxygen and discovered that I had fluid in my lungs so they aspirated the fluid with a needle which was very painful. Everyday a needle was poked in my stomach to prevent blood clotting. I was still not getting better, I had fever and chills and they discovered I had a infection and I was treated for that. I was in the hospital for 15 days. Every single day I was poked by needles. That is very unusual in America. Meanwhile my husband and children were really going through a lot emotionally and trying to manage everything without me. In 2001 our son suddenly developed a foot problem and his ankle was swollen and he had to go for surgery to fix the problem. It was a very long recovery process. He was in crutches for 2 months and my husband was giving him bath everyday. It was very painful for us to see our son suffer so much In 2002 my husband had problem with a gland in his neck and a biopsy was done and by god?s grace everything was normal. In 2003 I had to get my galbladder out as it got inflamed during my original surgery. I had complications during this surgery too and lost lot of blood and in addition I was worried about my daughter situation. In 2004 I was rushed to the hospital for severe stomach pain and it was some kind of stomach virus. In 2005 I had to go for surgery to get the incisional hernia repaired which developed as a consequence of the original surgery. Both my husband and I realized that all this pain and suffering is because of the heinous crime we committed. We are getting solace from prayers and visiting the pilgrimage places as Badrinath, Kedarnathand and Vaishno Devi and taking bath in Holy river Ganges. We are willing to take any punishment given to us but begging God to not punish our children. We are deeply and genuinely repenting the blunder we committed and it was not intentional but due to sheer ignorance. Children are a bundle of joy and terminating pregnancy will haunt you for the rest of your life. I think we were not in the right state of mind when we took that decision. Our pain and suffering continues to this day. I can never ever forgive myself for what I did How can you be heartless and use such awful words as destroy?. Do you know that what you want to destroy is a human life? All girls and women need to think carefully and take precautions not to get pregnant if you are not ready. An embryo already has life in it, so don't think you are not aborting a life. For your sensual enjoyment you want to sacrfice a life? Poor Girls fall for you guys sweet words, It will be very easy for guys to tell GFs to get the abortion done as they have enjoyed and got what they wanted from girls. The poor girls are the ones that end up messing up their lives and are left with max problems and a very uncertain future. I am sure some of you who got abortions done are reading this response and how many of you are really happy now? How many of you feel you took the right decision to go for abortion? Prevention is the best method and safest for you and your wellbeing & future life. You will not have any regrets and trust me your life will go smoothly. .I don't know how old you are but pls don't opt for abortion unless the mother's life is in danger. I am speaking from my heart, don't go for abortion because you don't want a child now. I am not trying to scare you but pls read the facts below and atleast give the baby for adoption but pls do not kill it. Pls discuss with your doctor before doing anything on your own. 4 weeks is already late the baby already starts to form. I know of a woman in her thirties who got abortion done in her early 20s and now can not get pregnant no mater how much she is trying. You have the golden oppotunity please don't loose it and repent later on in your life. If you want to talk about it I will be glad to help you sort it out. I am telling my personal experience so young women will think before taking such a drastic measure. After 15 yrs I am greatly repenting it. We have been going through lot of pain and suffering for opting for abortion. After terminating the pregnancy we returned home not still realizing what we had done. All of our pain and suffering began and here is the sequence of all major ones In 1997 our son fell all the way down from 10-15 staircase and was rushed to the hospital to make sure his head was Okay. BY God?s grace he only had a huge bump in front of his head In 1998 our son (who was 8 years old) suddenly had appendicitis and had to rush him for surgery. In 1999 our daughter had suddenly fainted and had a seizure in a church gathered for some school event. We were totally terrified as to what caused it so suddenly. A lot of tests were done and discovered that a tapeworm entered her brain although she is very careful with eating food but just didn?t know how she got it. Everyone was puzzled. We were completely traumatized by this terrible attack. She went through a lot of emotional and physical pain and suffering. Fluid was drawn from her back for further diagnosis. She was put on powerful neurological medicines and it took her along time to recover. In April 2000 I went for a colonoscopy because the doctor suggested it due to my stomach problems and my colon was perforated. He sent me home and told me eat not realizing he perforated me. Right after eating I got severe pain and chills and was rushed to the hospital. The doctor wanted to just put me on antibiotics instead of doing surgery which resulted in the infection spreading and ended with peritonitis which was excruciating painful like hell. I had to be rushed for emergency surgery to repair the colon. After the surgery I developed several complications, Suddenly my pulse was going down and they had to put me on Oxygen and discovered that I had fluid in my lungs, so they aspirated the fluid with a needle which was very painful. Everyday a needle was poked in my stomach to prevent blood clotting. I was still not getting better, I had fever and chills and they discovered I had a infection and I was treated for that. I was in the hospital for 15 days. Every single day I was poked by needles. That is very unusual in America. Meanwhile my husband and children were really going through a lot emotionally and trying to manage everything without me. In 2001 our son suddenly developed a foot problem and his ankle was swollen and he had to go for surgery to fix the problem. It was a very long recovery process. He was in crutches for 2 months and my husband was giving him bath everyday. It was very painful for us to see our son suffer so much In 2002 my husband had problem with a gland in his neck and a biopsy was done and by god?s grace everything was normal. In 2003 I had to get my galbladder out as it got inflamed during my original surgery. I had complications during this surgery too and lost lot of blood and in addition I was worried about my daughter situation as she got herself in a very complicated situation. In 2004, I was rushed to the hospital for severe stomach pain and it was some kind of stomach virus. In 2005, I had to go for surgery to get the incisional hernia repaired which developed as a consequence of the original surgery. Both my husband and I realized that all this pain and suffering is because of the heinous hatya we committed. We are getting solace from prayers and visiting the pilgrimage places as Badrinath, Kedarnathand and Vaishno Devi and taking bath in Holy river Ganges. We are willing to take any punishment given to us but begging God to not punish our children. We are deeply and genuinely repenting the blunder we committed and it was not intentional but due to sheer ignorance. Children are a bundle of joy and terminating pregnancy will haunt you for the rest of your life. I think we were not in the right state of mind when we took that decision. Our pain and suffering continues to this day. I can never ever forgive myself for what I did. I know three other people who got abortions done and they are going hell just like me but in a different way. One's person's husband all of sudden fell and his brain got affected and he has become mentally insane and the wife is going through hell taking care of him. Another person got abortion after having a child and felt she did not want anymore but due to sickness she lost her only child and can not conceive anymore. Another family is going through severe financial losses and her husband also had a heartattack and their situation is also very pathetic. I am begging young girls and newly married mowmen to please, first of all do not get pregnant if you are not ready and secondly if you are pregnant please do not opt for abortion unless your life is in danger. If you can't take care of the baby give it for adoption. You may respond back to me if you have any doubts or questions.I hope you understand why I am writing all this is to prevent all of you from making the same mistake and blunder I committed. My goal is to help make you think and take a wise, correct and educated decision that is ethically and morally right and also save the innocent unborn babies. I don't want anyone to suffer like we did.I genuinely want to help you. Discuss with experts before taking any drastic actions. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------


saiveera answer on 11 Jul '14 at 18:17

Please do not use unwanted kit and kill a life that God creates. Instead of that use proper protection to prevent pregnancy. Here are the different methods: Looking for Family Planning?Want to Delay Pregnancy?Not ready to get pregnant now? What are my Choices? If you are not ready to get pregnant and are looking for methods to prevent pregnancy or want to wait for a few years to get pregnant, below are various options for you to choose from. Each one has different failure rates -- no method other than abstinence is 100% effective -- but as per your preference you can make a choice after talking to your doctor about each method and doing your own research to find out what is the best method that suits you or interests you. Natural Natural family planning is also known as the rhythm method. It requires tracking the woman's ovulation and avoiding having sex when she is fertile. However, the failure rate is only 25% which is pretty high and you should be very precise with your calculations & requires careful planning with method Barrier Method Barrier methods include the condom, the diaphragm and the cervical cap. The diaphragm covers the entrance to the uterus, thereby blocking the sperm's access. The condom keeps the sperm contained. In general, barrier methods have a failure rate of in the range of 11 percent to 20 percent, Oral/Topical Some women take pills or wear a patch to control the hormones that allow pregnancy to occur. If used correctly, these drugs prevent pregnancy. You can stop taking the pills if you are ready to get pregnant. The failure rate of the pill or patch is about 5 percent, although it might be somewhat higher in overweight women. Injection Depo-Provera is an injection given to women as birth control. Women must get the shot four times per year, and it has a failure rate of less than 1 percent. Internal IUD stands for internal uterine device. An IUD is inserted into a woman's uterus by a doctor to prevent pregnancy. When the woman is ready to get pregnant the doctor can remove the device. The IUD has a failure rate of about 1 percent. Newer devices, such as the Nuva-Ring, have a failure rate of about 5 percent. Sterilization Both men and women can undergo sterilization procedures, with the goal of permanently preventing pregnancy. Failure rates for both men and women are less than 1 percent however, the procedures are never fool-proof or completely effective in everyone. If you want more detailed information get it right from Letsbaby.com or from the website below. http://www.buzzle.com/articles/different-methods-of-family-planning.html


SaiVeera answer on 28 Jan '14 at 19:32

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